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The well-known “face-off” sex position is not necessarily the most difficult physically. However, it requires your emotions to the full. This sex position involves getting close, physically and emotionally. And, of course, you’re having sex, but you’re also kind of snuggling and gazing into each other’s eyes (in case you want to, you can also whisper sweet nothings to your couple).
“Face-to-face sex is a great way to build emotional intimacy and feelings of closeness. The increased eye contact that comes from having sex face-to-face also boosts your oxytocin levels. That’s the ‘love’ chemical associated with bonding, trust, and relationship-building,” says Jodie Milton, women’s relationship and sex coach.
Besides, Dr Valerie Poppel, clinical sexologist explains that “Face to face intimacy intensifies the emotional connection between the couples,” and added, “Another benefit would be a stronger orgasmic release due to the emotional energetic connection between the couples.”
Let’s explore all we know about the “face-off” sex position.
How To Do It
First of all, the face-off works for vaginal and anal sex. The idea of this sex position is to be patient and pat yourself on the back for putting yourself out there. It is really important not to rush but to engage on a level that feels exciting and pleasurable. Try to relax, enjoy and connect your feelings with those of your partner. So, how can you do it? Let’s see.
One partner starts by sitting on a comfortable chair by putting a pillow behind their back. The penetrating partner can also sit on the edge of the bed and in that case, the receiving partner can ease discomfort (and potentially open up new angles) by putting pillows under their knees. Then, the other climbs onto their lap, straddling them, and wraps their arms around the penetrating partner’s back. The receiving partner can lower themselves into their partner’s penis or dildo. Then, the receiving partner can go for a ride until they get tired. Then, the sex position can be changed. They can always hover while the penetrating partner holds their hips and thrusts into them.
We suggest you let your fingers (and hands) do the talking. Once seated, you can put your hands anywhere on your body or theirs to make things more interesting. Use their hands (or your own) to stimulate your clit for next-level sensations.
While you do the face-off sex position, you can also practice tantric sex. It can be a good option to vary since it is a style of sex that promotes body awareness and connection between partners, among other benefits. And, do not forget to try the tantric kiss: “Kiss your partner’s lips, but don’t suck or move your tongues for 2 or 3 minutes.”
What’s the Benefit of the Face-Off?
You’re in control of the angle and depth of the entry and thrust. Plus, being seated provides support – necessary for a marathon sex session.
